How do I feel more sexy?

I am a mid 30s guy. I'd like to think I am attractive...I still have all my hair, I do my best to stay fit. However, lately I really don't feel sexy. I used to get checked out, but it seems more seldom lately.

I am married for 15 year + and have a daughter.

If you are going to lecture me on finding happiness at home, don't I am not looking to fool around, but it always feels good to get the occassional look, flirt from other women just to know I am alive. Lately it just seems like I am surrounded by politically correct asexual drones and I feel like I am one too.

Please give me some tips.

How do I feel more sexy?

I think what you are experiencing is normal. Alot of people face this eventually, especially after being with the same person for so many years. All I can recommend is:

1. Eat right and get alot of exercise. Go to the gym at least 3-4 times a week.

2. You can also maybe try to buy clothes that will make you feel sexy. Sexy doesn't equal to scraps of fabric tied together, sexy is always how well your clothes complement your body type.

3. Feeling sexy is mostly a state of mind. You should be able to love your body and feel comfortable with it. If you always come down hard on yourself for not having the flattest of abs then of course you will never feel sexy. A positive attitude always helps.

How do I feel more sexy?

It's simple.Nothing doing. Make daughter to your friend and take advise from her.

How do I feel more sexy?

It's understandable that at this point in time, you'd be wanting a little of the old attention you used to get . . . but to be quite honest, if people aren't turning their heads for you and you look as nice as you say you do, there's not much you can do to get checked out.

Rather, I'd advise you to start trying to feel sexy without relying on other people to make that true for you. You know what I mean? Instead of seeking out confirmation that you are sexy because others notice you, seek out feeling sexy because you feel sexy, not because of others' value judgements. Harder than I make it sound, I know, but try to live a little more sensually, and make it about yourself, not about others. This problem sounds less about sexiness and more about general self-confidence, which always comes from inside.

Hope that helps.

How do I feel more sexy?

jack off

How do I feel more sexy?

i understand. every person wants to feel sexy. maybe you should try something new. like, get you hair done, or buy some really sexy clothes. im talking blazers and the stuff that Justin Timberlake wears. totally sexy, and im sure you'll get great attention. when u c a pretty girl in the street, smile. show her attention, and im sure she'll give you feedback. do things that make you happy, and im sure if you'll take my advice, and some of the advice other people have put, you'll feel sexier, sooner !!!! good luck !!!!! :)

How do I feel more sexy?

Dont rely on outsiders to your marriage to get self-confedence, as long as your wife honestly thinks your hot thats all you need. And if you dont want to fool around why try for other women, because the one at home is the only woman that really matters in the long and short of things, she is the one of 4.1 billion women on this earth that you decided you loved most, and she chose you against the shame odds of men, "What is at home is What matters MOST".

GOOD LUCK

How do I feel more sexy?

Let me break it down for you. You're in your mid 30s. You're married. You have kids. End of story.

How do I feel more sexy?

its just a feeling, doesnt mean its true. Just go out with your friends and you will have your confidence back.

How do I feel more sexy?

Don't worry man. Feeling sexy is more mental than physical. You say you do your best to stay fit, then that's good enough. Now just appreciate what you have and don't bring yourself down. But, sure, people seem to not check you out a lot often nowadays. Let's not expect things going too far with other woman, since the ladies are very attentive if they see a wedding band on your finger when they see you. Start out with eye contact and a smile; if you receive these things from others, accept them as complements. Something simple as a smile can really brighten and attract people to you.

How do I feel more sexy?

Feeling sexy is mostly a state of mind. You should be able to love your body and feel comfortable with it. If you always come down hard on yourself for not having the flattest of abs then of course you will never feel sexy. A positive attitude always helps.

How do I feel more sexy?

sounds like you are having a midlife crisis. don't worry, this to will pass.

How do I feel more sexy?

i feel for you. You sound like a cool guy. Try this: jeans and a black t-shirt. if you have the arms to pull off the look and relatively flat abs you won't have a problem.

just remember, you are as young as you feel:-)

How do I feel more sexy?

isn't that what happens around the time you have a mid life crisis?

try to look more flirty...i know when i look at married guys they are always in their own world....maybe you look like your not as flirty as you think...?