I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did

Why did the first thing he said was " You should put something on your going to get a cold "

wtf!? I'm a sexy confident woman but when your man tells you this n doesn't even bat an eye when he sees you what do i think? His voice was very casual n it was almost sickening how i think he really was worried about me getting a damn cold.

Doesn't this man know that I'll allow myself to catch pneumonia if it means having a sexy wild rendezvous with him?

We are married for 2yrs the spice shouldn't be over. I mean it had been awhile since I did anything like that for him because of a third party ( female 14yrs younger ) who made a late night call to his cell. Since then I've found it hard to be intimate with him like maybe over a month before we had a encounter.

I mean knowing we're trying to overcome this rough patch he should have been more than willing. Not to mention I looked real hott.

What am I to think? Not be offended? I feel like is SHE on your mind?

hes 37, im 26.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

hmm. guys normally don't turn down sex offers. TALK TO HIM. communication is everything and married couples don't have enough of it these days.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

Maybe he's more impressed with "classy" than "slutty".

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

just Wow...

This is the strangest thing I've ever heard.

All I can surmise is that he is not interested in you. Either marriage counseling or time to get out of this marriage.. I'm sorry.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

I would be worrying, thats a crazy response from him.......... the spice should never leave a marriage if it does then the marriage is over........

I wish you well!!!

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

i dont know about your man but i do know some guys dont go for that " artificial" look. different men, different taste.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

You know men are devious... First of all he has issues with the whole 14 yr old girl calling him.. Especially if he is 36!!!And if he didn't look at you or even acknowledge that you were actually trying to be intimate with him than honestly you should ask yourself if he is really worth it.. I know that it sounds really harsh, but you have to think about your feelings.. And you should tell him that he is lucky that you even wasted your time on him to try to get pretty for him.. After the stunt with him and the little 14 year old..There is somebody that would love to see you like that I am sure.. Don't let him stress you out girl.. Good Luck..

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

I think he's just concerned for your well being, yea he prolly noticed how sexy you were but also noticed if you walked outside in the cold with that outfit on that you could get sick or complain the whole night.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

It's over. He's already moved on. Guys don't turn down a piece when it's right in front of him unless he is "spent' or planning to use his juice on another later on. Is he going out or late coming home? I'm assuing your not fat and ugly. You said you looked hot so I'll go along with that. What does he do with his spare time and does he make excuses abut where he's been or going? Do you really know where he is when he goes out.

Follow him or have someone on his *** because he doing something.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

looks like he's not interested in having sex with you. When I put on lingerie %26amp; high heels....my husband is all over me in less than a minute.

You should talk to your husband %26amp; find out what's up with him. Don't assume. The problem can be anything. It's best to discuss it with him maturely.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

Well I would say that you should just be direct and ask him what the hell he's thinking. It's already generous of u to forgive him for wad he did in the past with that 14 yr old girl, and now that you've put in effort to get back properly and spice up your lives, it is wrong that he should be so insensitive and casual. If he seriously felt remorse and wants to work through this rough patch with you he should also put in some effort to help the situation. Heck, he should be willing to do anything to appease you!

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

That doesn't sound good. And late night calls are not a good sign either.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

LoL! well he is man just like me and that is our first crime to women. lol but you are right to feel the way you do. You seek what every woman wants in life to be adored like it was when you were dating. He really is looking for the same thing. Several things you can do: counseling,talk to him nicely, Tell him that you got dressed up that way for him. He is really worrying that he is getting old. Guys worry about it when 40yrs get closer just like women worry about 30yrs. If you want him, make him desire you so much that he will miss you every waking minute. lol Men want to be needed,desired,loved,made to feel attractive too. Try letting him know how much he means to you. Try it. The more affection you show him he will for get that any other woman exist.lol Now if he looks at a girl in public and just looks don't hang him. At least he is not dead and he is married to you. Hope it works out. Make him your lover for life.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

Look the man needs his head checked out when my women gets all fixed up in her sexy nightie I forget what i'm even doing and even stop what I'm doing.The man needs to get his mind off other females and start thing of your feelings.If your willing to give it a shot he needs to give it a shot and start showing you some love or get the hell out.You get dressed up that way just to turn him on and he tells you that ****.Got a big brother have him kick the living **** out of him.Then you show him the ******* door. You need to find a man that will love you and no other but you. As I see it he is not good enough to wast your time on.

I vamped myself up to look like a sex goddess sexy nightie, high heels, make up n hair done. Why did the..?

I think he is stupid and is still messing with the other woman